It is the season for warming drinks, raking leaves and soon a Fall Break but in the meantime the Pro Bono Program keeps chugging along. See how you can get engaged!
Being spatial aware has a surprisingly profound effect.
Acts of kindness—we know they’re important not only for others, but for ourselves. They can contribute to a more positive community and help us feel more connected, happier even. But in our incessantly busy and hectic lives, performing good deeds can feel like an unattainable goal. Or perhaps we equate generosity with monetary contribution, which can feel like an impossible task depending on a person’s financial situation.
Perhaps surprisingly, the main reason people don’t offer more acts of kindness is the fear of being misunderstood. That is, at least, according to The Kindness Test—an online questionnaire about being nice to others that more than 60,000 people from 144 countries completed. It does make sense—having your good intentions be viewed as an awkward source of discomfort is not exactly fun for either party.
However, the results of The Kindness Test also indicated those fears were perhaps unfounded. The most common words people used were “happy,” “grateful,” “loved,” “relieved” and “pleased” to describe their feelings after receiving kindness. Less than 1% of people said they felt embarrassed, according to the BBC.
So, maybe with kindness, we need to put our social anxieties away and act without overthinking (to a certain point, of course). Perhaps it’s best to find the simplest actions we can commit to on a daily basis, rather than formulating some grandiose gesture.
Reddit user u/tacoabouttoeat asked the online forum “what’s a small act of kindness that literally anyone can do/practice everyday?” and people gave some brilliantly simple ideas.
Here are eight easy-to-accomplish crowdsourced answers that might bring us one step closer to a more peaceful world:
- Be aware of your surroundings.“Either move with the flow of traffic or get to the side if you have to situate yourself.” – @JoeMorgue
- Use headphones when taking public transport.“If you don’t have them – you can go 20 minutes without making excessive noise while sharing a small space with other people.” – @cynthiayeo
- Give compliments.“If you have a charitable thought about someone, even a stranger, say it out loud to their face. It is free, it is easy, and it might be the best thing that has happened to that person all week. Nothing creepy or overtly sexual or flirty, just kind words. ‘That shirt is really your color! Your haircut is beautiful. I appreciate your help, you were a real lifesaver!’ It doesn’t cost you anything and it means the world to the people you are talking to.” – @Comments_Wyoming
- Hold doors open for people.“Makes a big difference in one’s day.” – @sconnie64
- Don’t act on “road rage.”“After several years of commuting I came to the realization that with a few exceptional days, I always got home at the same time. Regardless of how many people ‘cut me off’ or drove too slowly and whatever. I started to just ‘go with the flow’ and always let people in when needed, always give extra room, and just enjoy my music/podcast. Life changing.” – @CPCOpposesAbortion
- Have patience.“You never know what someone else is going through. Could be a breakup, their dog just died, granny finally made it to heaven, or maybe mom just broke the news that she’s got end stage cervical cancer and has weeks left to live. You never know, so be patient. After all, wouldn’t you want someone to be patient with you?” – @mamalion12
- Thank the people you live with for taking care of things around the house.“It doesn’t have to be over the top, but everyone feels better about doing chores when it is noticed and appreciated. ‘Thanks for folding my laundry’ or ‘thanks for always keeping track of our bills, you’re awesome at managing money!’” – @Mrshaydee
- Leave a place you visit just a little bit nicer than when you found it.“Pick up a piece of litter at the park. Give that mat with a pucker ready to trip someone a little tug to get it to lay flat in the business you’re at. Let an employee know when you spot a leaky dairy product on the shelves so they can deal with it. Return someone else’s grocery cart.” – @BlueberryPiano
The inaugural team of law students and lawyers is almost full. We have room for 2 more law students. SOAR is a program sponsored by the Social Security Administration to help those who are homeless, at risk of becoming homeless and have a mental or physical illness. Volunteers will interview carefully screened clients, prepare the medical summary and submit the application. Volunteer lawyers will be part of the team for supervision and problem solving.
This project is a collaboration of the USC School of Law Pro Bono Program, the SC Bar Pro Bono Program, the SC Department of Disabilities and Special Needs, the SC Department of Mental Health and the SOAR Technical Assistance team.
Orientation dates are Oct. 6,20 and 27. Online course will be taken in Nov./Dec. ( about 20 hours to complete) Volunteer work will start in Jan. Once the application is filed, the volunteer task is complete. Just a matter of waiting to hear from the SSA. Typical SOAR cases get a positive response in 90 days as opposed to the usual 2 years.
This is a unique opportunity with skills that easily transfer to many areas of the law. If you are interested in becoming an inaugural volunteer contact the Pro Bono Program TODAY.
After a long hiatus due to COVID, the My Will project is back, providing simple wills for low income senior citizens in the Midlands. This joint project of the SC Bar Pro Bono Program. Midlands Council on Aging and the USC School of Law Pro Bono Program has been a huge success!
Using a simple will template and a questionnaire, student volunteers will team up with pro bono lawyers to draft and execute simple wills. Sorry 1L’s you have class on Friday mornings.
Sign up is easy! https://signup.com/go/kScwfvh. Template will be sent to you a few days before each event. Dress is business casual. Bring your laptop with the template loaded